I’m not one of those adorable, beautifully photographed lifestyle bloggers with a perfectly curated life. But, I read plenty of those sites, and I secretly love it when people share the pretty things they’re obsessed with. And, in that spirit, thought I’d share some of my current favorite things.
When I was a teen, everyone I knew had a pair of Doc Martens. I *begged* my mother for a pair, but she said they were too expensive for someone whose feet might still be growing and said I could have a pair when my feet stopped growing. Well, my feet haven’t grown since 6th grade, it turns out, and I never got those Docs. Since I recently discovered the flower-printed variety, I think I might need to call in that old promise so I can have a pair of cute ass-kicking shoes. Hey, Mom! My feet stopped growing! Can I have a pair of these?
Don’t you think I need a pair?
Now, we all know that I love my vintage bike. BUT. That doesn’t mean I don’t sometimes window shop for the bike of my dreams, either online or in the fancy new bike shop that just opened near my house. It turns out the bike of my dreams is an Electra Amsterdam. Anyone wanna buy me an $800 bike? That fancy new bike shop sells them! They’re SO pretty, and they’ve got all the things I want in a bike: good looks, multiple gears (this is why I hate cruisers), fenders, chain guards, lights, and racks for baskets and panniers. See:
The other day when I went home for my Lil’est Sister’s 13th birthday, my mom showed me some amazing photos of foxes playing in their back yard. Two of the cutest little foxes you ever did see, just frolicking and playing. Then, this morning, she sent me this gorgeous picture of a fox playing in her newly snowy backyard:
Now I’m obsessed with foxes. And I recently saw a documentary on dogs which featured domesticated foxes. It spurred a new dream: a snuggly pet fox. They’re like the best of both worlds between dogs and cats. But I bet they’re hard to potty train. So, how about some cute fox stuff instead? (each picture links to the Etsy listing for the item)
I vote that we make buffalo the next cute trendy animal. Think it could happen?
Last night after dinner, as the sun started to go down, my best friend and I strapped on some helmets and sped off on our trusty cycles. We zoomed down the streets of our neighborhood, racing the daylight and each other, to the soundtrack of a thousand cicadas buzzing in the trees. We made a lap around the playground, but decided not to stop and play with the other kids, instead zipping off in search of another downhill to give us a dose of speed. As I flew down the hills, as much wind as the humid Southern summer air can muster in my face, I caught myself smiling wide, tongue half-out like an eight-year-old. In my mind, I was popping wheelies, if not in reality. We perched at the top of a hill, wondering if the bright light streaking across the darkening sky was an asteroid or an airplane, and we marveled at the giant pink-tinged moon hanging over a shining state capitol building, smiling down on our city with its chubby old man face. When we pulled up to our driveway, I half expected my mom to tell us to hurry up and get bathed before bedtime– tomorrow’s a school day.
It was a wonderful way to spend an evening.
It was also a wonderful twist to a bad situation.
On Friday night, after an all-ages dance party with friends and their children (complete with glow-sticks), we came home and, as usual, I opened the back door to let the dogs out into our fenced back yard. Ten minutes later, a neighbor knocked at the door, Bessie collared in one hand, Olive running across the street. “How the heck did they get out of the fenced yard?” Olive’s a runner, but it’s usually because she’s slipped past us at the front door. We captured her and went to check out the back yard. The alley gate was open. Neither one of us had been out the back gate, so we knew someone had been IN. That’s when we noticed my bike was missing.
Let me tell you, I loved that bike. It wasn’t fast, and it often wasn’t functional, but I loved it. It was a petite black Parkwood (I thought the name was special because we used to live on a street named Parkwood) with silver fenders and a silver basket on the front, and we bought it off of Craigslist. It had a sticker that bragged it was Made in the USA, and it was so heavy it must have been forged out of pure American iron. It was mine.
I try to have a hands-off attitude toward my stuff. I want to be the kind of person who would give my bike up to anyone who asked me for it. And, though I loved it, the loss of the bike didn’t bother me nearly as much as the feeling of violation, that someone had come into my back yard to take my things, and the fear and worry that one of my dogs could have been killed or hurt because the thief left the back gate open.
Because I like to bike to my church, I wanted a replacement bicycle. I started browsing Craigslist the next morning and found a listing for two matching, vintage French town bicycles, specifically 1974 Motobecane Nobly bicycles. The seller lived so close to us I could have biked there had I had a bicycle, and Jon and I went to scope them out. Just to see other options, we went to a bike store and I tested a cute little hybrid that rode like a dream and shifted gears with the click of a button. Less cute was the $400 price tag, though, so we left without making the purchase and went to see the Craigslist find. When we saw the vintage French bikes, we knew we had to have them, and $200 later, we were on our way home with our beauties.
And they are beauties. They’re painted a lovely copper color, and though the chrome was a little rusty, they polished up nice. They have fenders and racks on the backs, still sport 1974 bicycle license plates from Wichita, Kansas, and my favorite features are the working head and tail lights operated with a friction generator activated as the bikes are pedaled. They’re a sort of bike you don’t see very often in a world that seems divided among road bikes, cruisers, and mountain bikes/mountain bike wannabes– they’re basically city commuter bikes, more upright than the average road bike and outfitted with a cruiser’s fenders and racks, on skinny road bike tires, with apparently unusual 27 inch wheels.
Beyond the rust, the tires were dryrotted, the gears weren’t shifting, and the brakes were sketchy. My best friend/biking buddy/bunkmate Jon happens to be pretty handy with bikes, and by last evening had my bike newly shod in fresh tires and tubes, tuned up to the point that 4/10 gears (activated with levers at the center of the handlebars) are now working, and had the brakes mostly fixed. His Motobecane is still not up and running (the rear gears seem fully locked up and won’t move a bit when he pedals), but he hopped on his trusty day-to-day bike and joined me for our joyride. My new bike turned out to be much lighter and faster than my last bike and was a downright thrill to ride in comparison. Jon said he had trouble keeping up, and in truth, I left him in the dust a few times. He says he can’t wait to have his speedy new old bike fully operational so he can give me a run for my money. Maybe his will look as snazzy as this fully restored version.
I may never be Lance Armstrong, as I’m not particularly interested in cycling long distances, but I’m more than excited to have a time machine to transport me back to my childhood for evening jaunts around the neighborhood. Maybe after that we can catch fireflies in a mason jar.
When you’re driving down the street and end up behind a bicyclist, how do you respond?
Do you get frustrated that the cyclist isn’t going 10 mph over the speed limit as you’d like to, and try to whiz around them? Failing that, do you tailgate them or honk at them? Do you yell that they should ride on the sidewalk? Do you think angry thoughts that they’d dare to ride on the road?
My husband commutes 3 miles to work by bicycle each and every day. He’s learned the hard way that drivers are not concerned for his safety, will run red lights or will turn into him as he crosses an intersection, and in fact believe he should not be on the road at all. You need only to read the comments on this local news story about bicyclists to understand why he was ACTUALLY AFRAID FOR HIS SAFETY after reading the piece. Several of the commenters expressed, angrily and in all caps, that bikes don’t belong on roads, and suggested that they feel the urge to run over cyclists with their cars. One commenter even suggested that he’d like to run over cyclists, back up, and then run over them again. I honestly worry about my husband’s safety on his bike every single day.
Many of the commenters seemed to think that if cyclists get injured, it’s their own fault. Actually, CARS cause most bicycle accidents. My work-study student was struck by a car while cycling home from campus just this week!
Many car drivers want cyclists to get off the roads and onto the sidewalks. Actually, it’s ILLEGAL for cyclists to ride their bikes on sidewalks. Sidewalks are for pedestrian traffic only, and as a pedestrian, I appreciate not having to worry about being hit by bicycles. Bicycles are required to use the roads, and drivers are required to SHARE THE ROAD. Speed limits, which some drivers seem to think are posted as requirements for minimum speed in order to be allowed use of the road, are actually UPPER limits. More drivers need to be made aware of the law concerning bicycles. For example, bicyclists do not have to come to a complete stop at stop signs or red lights if the coast is clear, unlike cars.
So the next time you’re driving down the street with a cyclist in front of you, please remember that that might be someone’s husband. Or daughter. Or mother. Or uncle. Or friend. Please share the road. And maybe even thank the cyclist for helping make your city and your planet a better place.
I just said to Jon, “We’re having a very ‘No Impact Man‘ kind of Saturday.” And it’s true! This morning Jon mowed the lawn with his fancy non-fossil-fueled Neuton mower, then we walked to our favorite local natural/slow food/soul food restaurant for brunch and also bought a dozen local eggs and chatted with the owner about the difference between commercial and local food. I had biscuits and gravy, Jon had some gumbo, and we shared fries with bearnaise and a green bean salad. MMMMM! Then we came home, grabbed our shopping bags, and hopped on our bikes to go to the grocery store, and I got to test out my new bike basket which Jon so sweetly installed on my bike this morning. Verdict: slightly wobbly and harder to steer, but it worked! Not a bad way to spend a Saturday morning. What are you up to this weekend?