I have this pattern that I always repeat. I get bored with my hair, hack it off, enjoy the new do for a little while, decide I hate it, and then start growing my hair out again. About a year ago I had a cute “Posh” bob, but got frustrated with having to straighten it every single day in order for it to look right, and decided to grow my hair out so I wouldn’t even have to blow dry. Now, it’s just past my collarbone, long enough to startle me when it brushes on my arm because I think it’s a bug crawling on me, long enough to hang down the back of my neck and hold in heat, long enough to get trapped under my body when I’m lying down and necessitate a position change so I don’t feel like I’m pulling my own hair. Sure, it looks pretty, I’ve embraced my natural waves, it’s healthy. But I’m beginning to be annoyed.
And I’m kind of wondering if now isn’t the time to just do something crazy and radical and hack it all off for once in my life, just to see what that’s like. August in Charleston would be a great time to not have hair hanging down my neck. Jon says I should go for it. He’s not hung up on long hair as the one way a woman should look, and he’s not one of those retrograde men who tell their women how to wear their hair, which is wonderful, but sometimes infuriating because I’m indecisive and need a little input now and again. I often wish I could be a contestant on a makeover show, just so someone would do my hair FOR me, without me having to decide. But I figure, hey, that’s what the internets are for, right?
So, just like with the buying of a purse, I figured I’d ask the interwebz for advice. I will say that I have fine hair that is on the thin side with a natural loose wave to it that I describe as “wrinkly” because it is neither straight nor curly.
And these pics sort of illustrate what I’m fantasizing about doing with my hair:
Am I insane? Would this be cute? Could I pull it off? Would this exacerbate my irrational insecurity about the shape of my chin? Would these styles work if I didn’t want to straighten/blow dry? Do you have better suggestions? Do you know of a kickass stylist in Charleston I should go to? Right now I go to MasterCuts, and I’m not sure I trust them with radical change of this nature.
Of course I may just chicken out altogether.